My ambition as a teenager in Houston was to go to New York City, study fashion design at F.I.T., and become a famous fashion designer. Well-meaning people talked me out of that dream, and at age twenty-one I wound up in Madison County, Iowa. Winterset, the county seat, had a population of 3600 at the time.
Fifteen years later, a quilt finally got me to The Big Apple.

My career in the quilt world involved many trips to New York in the 1990s. I called several times a year on magazine advertisers, mostly fabric companies that catered to quilters.
Nowadays I go to New York for fun, mainly to visit my oldest, Hannah, who landed there in 2000 after graduating from the University of Iowa with degrees in journalism and human sexuality studies.

I’m just back from a week out East, where Hannah and I tromped around Brooklyn and parts of Manhattan. I absorbed all the urban-ness I could.

At the Brooklyn Museum, I looked at shiny, sparkly things. Solid Gold, part of the museum’s 200th anniversary celebration, featured over 500 pieces, many of them from the world of fashion.
I met up on Saturday with some quilt world besties for brunch at Fiorello’s, across the street from Lincoln Center, followed by a matinee of The Blood Quilt, a play by Pulitzer Prize winner Katori Hall. We all thought the story compelling, the performances superb, the set and staging beautiful.


On my last day in the city, I met a friend for a wonderful lunch in the Wall Street area (he paid, what a nice guy), then made my way north to Chelsea, walking many blocks in my Stuart Weitzman boots.
At a Chelsea Market kiosk, I purchased gifts for the friends who would soon help handle traffic flow at my home during the Winterset Christmas Tour of Homes, an event benefitting a worthy local charity.
“You know these are for Hanukah,” the kiosk lady at Li-Lac Chocolates (chocolatier since 1923) said. I did not know that, but I decided the golden treasure chests filled with foil-wrapped chocolate coins were perfect for my Winterset friends.

Hannah, born in Winterset at Madison County Memorial Hospital in 1975, is a true New Yorker now, but because of her Midwest upbringing, she stands on solid ground.
A print of my father’s sketch of the Madison County courthouse hangs in Hannah’s home in Brooklyn, the beams of light streaming from the dome, in gold, her own enhancement.
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NYC is a my favorite city in the world. My teenage self, too, wished mightily to move there... but was otherwise persuaded. I suppose we're all where we're meant to be, but I think you'll understand me when I say I still yearn for it. So lucky for you that Hannah's being there provides you with a home base in the city. That feels full circle. xoxo
thank you